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Assessing Live-in Relationship
By J U B Sastry

Moon’s presence in the 6th house or 12th house, under the influence of third lord and also of Rahu, without the beneficial influence of Jupiter or Venus, causes Yoga of desire, on part of the native, to have live-in relationship. Involvement of both 6th and 12th houses is not necessary, as involvement of one of these would automatically influence the other. But there should be some sort of involvement of Lagna lord in the yoga. The Yoga of desire would not be perfect, without the involvement of Lagna lord in some way or other. The more the involvement of Lagna lord, the more the Yoga becomes powerful.

 
Relationships, which have become the topic of discussion and contention among many in the socialmedia driven present society, are made or destroyed causing happiness or dismay to the people. Breaking of relationships, among brothers and sisters, between a husband and wife, between a father and his children and among friends, has become the order of the day. In fact, making or breaking relationships has become a routine activity for many people these days.

People calling astrologers and numerologists and asking them if it is possible to break relationship has become very common these days. (I receive calls of this type sometimes and obviously, other astrologers too must be getting.)

Relationship is nothing but some sort of friendship and in any astrological chart, friendships and relationships are guided by the third house. The influence on third house decides the nature and sustenance of the relationship.

Live-in relationships, enmity and longevity of relationships would also stem from the influences the third house, third house lord, the Lagna and its lord are subjected to, with regard to other factors in the chart.

Nature of relationship

Relationships and their nature also vary from Lagna to Lagna and due to varied influences. For example, for Aries Lagna, Mercury becomes the third house lord. As Mercury is a planet of sharpness and quickness, the native gets the ability to make quick friends and relationships. However, the native’s quantum of sharpness and the sort of relationships depend on the nature of influence Mercury receives.
If Mercury is placed in Aquarius, the Aries native would have many friends, as Aquarius stands for abundance. Mercury’s association as the third house lord with Venus in the same sign indicates relationship or friendship with women, as Venus stands for women. For the same native, Mercury’s association with Mars in the eighth house in Scorpio without any beneficial influence would result in relationship with evil-minded and violent people. The relationship may also be secret, if Rahu influences the sign either through aspect or association, as the shadowy planet supports secrecy, for which Scorpio stands for.

If Mercury is situated in Leo for Aries natives, the native would have royal friends in limited number. If Jupiter aspects or conjuncts Mercury in Leo, the relationship would be religious, ethical and spiritual. If a strong Saturn also aspects Leo or associates with the planets therein, the relationship would be highly spiritual and long lasting. If the fifth house lord Sun is also present in Leo in own sign, the native would have friends or acquaintances in Government, maintain strong relations with them and benefit from Government directly or its agencies.

The following is the horoscope of a young disciplined Civil Engineer who is a devotee of Ramakrishna Paramahamsa and Vivekananda. This man is highly spiritual and runs independent contracts for Government, though small in volume. He has good friends in Government. According to him, his friends are also spiritual. Apart from that, he is a regular visitor to Ramakrishna Mutt wherever he is.

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In the above chart, third house lord Mercury is associated with fifth house lord Sun in the fifth house, receiving the aspect of both Jupiter and Saturn. The point to be noted is that his third house lord Mercury’s presence in Leo, a royal sign, gave him friends in Government. Royal planet Sun’s presence there strengthened the good Yoga. The aspect of Jupiter and Saturn made him highly spiritual at young age. This is the reason for his having friends who are also spiritual.

receiving the aspect of both Jupiter and Saturn. The point to be noted is that his third house lord Mercury’s presence in Leo, a royal sign, gave him friends in Government. Royal planet Sun’s presence there strengthened the good Yoga. The aspect of Jupiter and Saturn made him highly spiritual at young age. This is the reason for his having friends who are also spiritual.

Live-in relationship

While the traditional marriage system still rules roost in India and elsewhere, the practice of live-in relationships is gradually trying to get a foot-hold in the traditional system. With Supreme Court also giving credence to live-in relationships in India, there is strong need for astrologers to catch up with the hidden concepts of live-in relationships, illegal relationships and contract marriages in astrological charts.

When study of astrology came into existence in ancient times, various issues concerning marriages were incorporated in the subject directly. However, you have to do a lot of research in the astrological charts to find out the hidden and intricate topics of live-in relationships and similar concepts, which are an offshoot of marriages.

Marriage is a union of male and female, and live-in relationships are also unions between males and females. In both cases, the purpose is the same. Similar to marriages, live-in relationships are also broken in some cases and may last long in some other cases. The only difference is whether it is ethical or legal, or both ethical and legal.

Finding out live-in relationships

A horoscope shows whether a person, male or female, would seek live-in relationship or not. It also reveals whether or not one succeeds in having live-in relationships. As I said, third house represents relationship and its lord stands for a source of relationship. In all natal charts, Jupiter stands for ethics and Venus stands for truth. As you know, marriages are studied by seventh house and its lord.

Live-in relationships, though legal, have no ethical sanction, as in the case of a marriage. Ethics would never change, while law may change and there is no guarantee that live-in relationships would have permanent legal protection, as court judgements are bound to be reversed at any point of time.

Live-in relationships can’t be studied from seventh house, as they are not ethical and divine. Which house then stands for live-in relationship? Since these relations are not ethical, you must study them from non-ethical house. As ninth house deals with ethics, its opposite third house deals with everything that is unethical. Hence, third house deals with live-in relationships.

Now, be sure that both relationships and live-in relationships are studied from third house. It should never be misconstrued that live-in relationships are inherent in third house. It has become a common practice for astrologers to say that sixth house is sickness, which is not correct. Sixth house in a chart only represents status of health. Please note that sickness is not inherent in that. Sickness is studied from the afflictions the house or its lord receives. Similarly, whether a person is interested in live-in relationship is studied from the influence on third house and its lord.

Desire for Live-in relationship

Moon in any chart represents desires and its association with third house lord or its presence in third house reveals he or she has a desire for relationships. The influence on Moon of Jupiter or Venus would remove any sort of desires to have livein relationship from the mind of the native, as the planets represent ethics and truth respectively.
However, Moon’s presence in the 6th house or 12th house, under the influence of third lord and also of Rahu, without the beneficial influence of Jupiter or Venus, causes Yoga of desire, on part of the native, to have live-in relationship. Involvement of both 6th and 12th houses is not necessary, as involvement of one of these would automatically influence the other.
This Yoga is formed in some other ways too. Moon’s presence in the third house under the aspect or conjunction of Rahu and lord of 6th house or 12th house or both without any beneficial influence of Jupiter or Venus would result in such Yoga. Any Yoga of this kind, direct or indirect, will result in seeking live-in relationship.

Also, in both cases, there should be some sort of involvement of Lagna lord in the yoga. The Yoga of desire would not be perfect, without the involvement of Lagna lord in some way or other. The more the involvement of Lagna lord is the more the Yoga becomes powerful.

Live-in relationship is some sort of foreign activity or concept, and the involvement of the sixth house is a must for this sort of Yoga to be formed in the chart. The reason is that sixth house stands for alien activity. Twelfth house involvement is also required, as it represents bed comforts. However, as I have pointed out, if one of the houses is involved, the other would be automatically involved.

Fruition of live-in relationship

How to know whether or not the desire for live-in relationship would be fruitful? This is found out through the sign position. If the Yoga is formed in fruitful sign, it is bound to be fulfilled. If the Yoga is formed in semi-fruitful signs, chances of fulfilling the desire would be fifty-fifty. If the Yoga is formed in Dry signs, it would never be fulfilled. Fruitful signs are Cancer, Scorpio and Pieces. Taurus. Libra, Capricorn and Sagittarius are semi-fruitful signs and the rest are dry or barren. Please note some astrologers consider Aquarius as fruitful.

How to know whether or not the desire for live-in relationship would be fruitful? This is found out through the sign position. If the Yoga is formed in fruitful sign, it is bound to be fulfilled. If the Yoga is formed in semi-fruitful signs, chances of fulfilling the desire would be fifty-fifty. If the Yoga is formed in Dry signs, it would never be fulfilled. Fruitful signs are Cancer, Scorpio and Pieces. Taurus. Libra, Capricorn and Sagittarius are semi-fruitful signs and the rest are dry or barren. Please note some astrologers consider Aquarius as fruitful.

What made her decide first to opt for a live-in relationship?
And what made her give up the idea of having live-in relationship. Take a close look at the chart. (Name withheld)

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Moon, which is also the 12th house lord, is present in the third house. Rahu-associated Saturn, which is sixth house lord, is throwing its aspect on Moon, through its tenth aspect. You must know that Saturn carries Rahu’s aspect also to Moon in such circumstances. Again, Saturn throws its third aspect on Sun, Lagna lord. Saturn and Rahu are also influencing the 12th house, by placing themselves in the sixth house. This is the reason for her desire to have live-in relationship. The Yoga is almost perfect. However, Jupiter is influencing the 12th house lord on one hand and on the other, Venus is also influencing the Lagna.
This means, though she has a strong desire to have live-in relationship, the influence of Jupiter and Venus, both of which are beneficial planets, on her12th house and third house would not allow such a thing.
The subtle meaning we must understand is that with Jupiter influencing her Moon, which represents her 12th house, her bed comforts would never be unethical. Moon being the signifier of Mind as a natural phenomenon, her mind would not opt for unethical things.
Also, Venus influencing the Lagna through seventh aspect, her body can never aspire for unethical things. It is true that the desire has emanated from the presence of the Yoga in the sixth house, from three malefic planets Mars, Saturn and Rahu, which influence the 12th house, that stands for bed comforts (carnal pleasures). We must understand that the desires are different from actions. One may have several desires but all of them may not last long or may not transform into actions.
Also, the third house and the sixth house, in which Yogas for live-in relationship are formed, have fallen in semi-fruitful signs giving, no guarantee for the success of the Yoga.
One must note that the lady would have gone ahead with her proposed live-in relationship, if there is no influence of Jupiter and Venus on Moon and Lagna respectively.
 
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